When we first looked into cloth diapering, I was SO OVERWHELMED by all the information out there. There are entire blogs dedicated to cloth diapering that have reviewed every.single.cloth.diaper. Ever. Which is helpful for some people. But, it was way too much information for me, and it made cloth diapering sound really overwhelming. I do not thrive in situations where I have to choose from 100 options. [Think Cheesecake Factory Menu.]
I do not consider myself a cloth diaper expert, but I have figured out what’s simple, cheap and works. That’s what this guide is for. Let’s call it “The Slacker’s Complete Guide to Cloth Diapering.” [Slacker is not generally what I’m going for in life, but I’m okay with slacking in the realm of cloth products to catch poop.]
This is not a guide to every cloth diapering option ever because, well, too many options.
This is a guide to everything you actually need to know about cloth diapering. I will narrow down everything I’ve ever read about cloth diapers to a couple easy, cheap options for other mommas who might also be interested in the slacker’s way to cloth diapering 🙂
In this complete-but-incomplete guide, I will cover the following:
- Backstory: why we ended up kind of cloth diapering
- What cloth diapers available and how to choose
- My 2 favorite cheap cloth diapers
- How we actually cloth diaper on a day-to-day basis and what it looks like
- How much money cloth diapering saves
CLOTH DIAPERING SAVES MONEY
I’m not a huge cloth diaper fan or particularly passionate about it. We only do it to save money. Side bonus – there are no emergency trips to get diapers. We’ve definitely had to do that before.
We started when Addie was 9 months. We had just moved to Boston. I’d been debating it since she was born really, but since we had an income, spent a summer living with my inlaws, then moved across the country, I never got into it. Then we stopped having an income and Ben went to grad school and we lived on loans, so I took the plunge.
We initially spent $100 on a couple days worth of cloth diapers, and bought a $30 box of cloth-diaper-safe detergent that ended up lasting us over a year. When I was 36 weeks pregnant with Emma, we moved to Omaha with a 16 month old, and lived at my in-laws’… and stopped cloth diapering. Obviously. Then we had 2 in diapers for so many months and it just seemed daunting to keep everyone’s butts clean, let clean them in cloth. We were living out of boxes for longer than I’d care to admit. Our one tiny bathroom felt crammed, I didn’t have a good system, and basically, we were in survival mode.
Finally, as our 2 year old neared potty training, and we started to come out of our 2-under-2 daze, I bought a few more on craigslist and figured out a cloth diaper system that worked. So back in cloth we went. By “we,” I mean Emma, the second kid.
WHAT ARE MY CLOTH DIAPER OPTIONS AND HOW DO I CHOOSE?
If you were in my living room asking how to choose cloth diapers, here’s what I’d tell you. It seems like there are a billion options in cloth diaper world, but really there are 2 choices you have to make in order to purchase cloth diapers.
Choice #1: Sized Cloth Diapers vs. One Sized Cloth Diapers
Sized diapers are less bulky and you buy them in sizes – small, medium, large. Kind of like buying disposables in sizes. The pros are being less bulky, and lasting longer because you only use them for part of your cloth diapering with each kid. Also, some people say they fit better. The obvious con is you have to buy more diapers. I don’t personally use these or have any friends who use these, so I don’t know much about them… all my cloth diapering friends are on a tight budget and primarily cloth diaper to save money. If you are cloth diapering to save money, do not buy sized diapers. Unless you plan to have 4+ kids. Then it might still save you money.
One-Size Diapers have all kinds of snaps or velcro that allow you to adjust the diapers across the tummy and up-and-down. (see picture below.) Depending on the brand, they claim to fit babies 8-35 lbs ish. The main pros are, one-size diapers are cheaper, and you don’t have to buy several different sizes. Cons: They’re bulkier. They could wear out and need replacing if you want to use them for 2-3 years each on a bunch of kids.
*Note: we’ve never cloth-diapered a newborn, so I don’t know how the one-size diapers fit newborns. I’m guessing you’d wait till baby is 12+ pounds for any of these even though they say 8 lbs. BUT, exclusively breast-fed babies’ poop is 100% water-soluable so if you do cloth diaper a newborn, you can throw it right in the washing machine… no rinsing needed. Weird! Also, there are newborn size cloth diapers available. But again, we just use disposables for those first few months.
Choice #2: Style/ Type of Diaper
There are a ton of different brands, styles, and types of cloth diapers.
I would basically sum them up in these 3 categories. All-In-One | Pocket | All-In-Two
All-in-ones are exactly that. All in ones. They go on like disposables – in one piece. No inserts no clips, no pockets, no covers. The inside of the diaper is absorbent fabric that wicks away moisture and the outside is water proof. They’re cloth versions of disposable diapers. The ones we have are seriously amazing. They really don’t feel that wet after baby pees, similar to a wet disposable. Also similar to a disposable, they hold a lot of pee!
Pocket diapers are a two-piece diaper that has a cover + a thick absorbent piece that fits into a pocket. You can sometimes mix brands of covers with different brands of inserts which is why it gets confusing to read about people’s suggestions and favorites for pocket diapers.
All-in-two diapers are 2 pieces: a diaper cover + piece of absorbent cloth. Similar to pocket diapers but no pockets. Here is a picture of a few different brands of all-in-two diapers.
Those are really the only 2 choices you need to make when buying cloth diapers:
- Do I want to buy one-size or several sizes?
- Do I want all-in-ones (AIOs), pockets, or all-in-twos (AI2)?
And in the spirit of making your life easier, I’ll you what my favorite diapers are so you don’t have to agonize over the decision. Just save yourself some energy and buy these ones 🙂
MY 2 FAVORITE CLOTH DIAPERS
1. Flip Diaper Covers + Prefolds (I like OsoCozy) or Inserts (Flip Brand)
A cover + a prefold is absolutely the cheapest way to cloth diaper. Prefolds are like those old fashioned cloth diapers you picture people using 30 years ago. Instead of folding and pinning them, you can just lay them in a waterproof cover and snap it on like you would a disposable diaper. You don’t need to wash the cover if the cloth diaper gets wet. You can just wipe it down and reuse, which is why only 6 covers would last a couple days in between washing. Always wash the cover if it’s poopy… duh.
1b. Flip Diaper Covers + Flip Inserts
Personally, I love the ease and slim fit of flip inserts, but they’re more money than the prefolds. I recently bought a giant pile off a lady from craigslist, and love using them exclusively. They come in packs of 3, for $15, so $5 each as compared to $2-3 each for prefolds.
2. BumGenius Freetime All-in-Ones
At first, I recommended a cheaper all-in-one (AIO) made by Diaper Rite. But those have worn down pretty quickly. BumGenius Freetimes are my favorite budget-friendly option on the market. They’re $19.95 each, and often you can find package options, like 6 for $106*. If I was doing it over again from the beginning, knowing I’d cloth diaper at least 3 little bums for about 2 years each, I’d by 20 of these and call it a day.
You can buy bumGenius diapers lots of places. Amazon is my go to.* Diaper Junction has packages of 6, 12, 18, or 24* that drop the price per diaper down to about $18 (instead of 19.95 if you were to buy them individually). Cotton Babies & Kelly’s Closet also sell similarly discounted packages of bumGenius Freetime diapers.
If you’re not sure about cloth diapering, Kelly’s Closet also has a risk-free 30 day trial option for select brands of diapers, including BumGenius Freetimes. You can try them out for a month and return them for all your money back if you don’t like them. Read more about it here!
BUT HOW DO I DEAL WITH ALL THE POOP?
No doubt about it, there is a lot of poop with cloth diapering. But there’s a lot of poop with diapering in general. And contrary to what I thought initially, it’s not that much grosser in cloth. (Except sometimes, it is. Like when you get stuck with a blowout in public and no backup supplies. Woops.) Here are the deets on how we partially cloth diaper & my no-touching-poop method of dealing with the diapers.
PARTIAL CLOTH DIAPERING
- Our primary goal is the combo of cheap and easy, which means we put our kids in disposables too.
- We don’t cloth diaper when we travel (and we probably travelmore often than the average people with two
- We never ask other people to use cloth diapers (babysitters, church nursery, grandparents, etc…) For a long time, even Ben didn’t really use them. If he changed them, he’d put on disposable I didn’t really care, but he’s come around. Especially with the ones that are all one piece because they go on just like a disposable.
- I do almost always have Emma in cloth at home or when we run errands around town.
- Both girls wear a disposable overnight. We do milk before bed and they’re generally heavy wetters. I didn’t care to add all these special doublers or super absorbent extras to our cloth diaper collection. Plus they both often poop first thing in the morning, so disposable is just easier.
- Our $15/ month budget covers wipes, Huggies or Target brand disposable diapers (my 2 faves). I only buy diapers on sale and usually stack coupons. It’s one of the only things I coupon for.
- I now use Tide Original Powder detergent on all our clothes and diapers (separately washed). Keeps it simple. Have never had a problem with the diapers smelling or leaking. It has to be original powder, so I hear. I’ve never tried other Tide on cloth diapers. The first brand I used was Country Save. It lasted forever, but I like Tide better.
- You can buy a sprayer* for the toilet but we don’t have one. If a diaper wet only, I just get it a little damp and throw it in our wet bag (which hangs on a hook in the bathroom… pretty trendy decor) ???? I wash this wet bag every time and it’s held up amazing. If you need a wet bag for anything, I’d highly recommend these Planet Wise bags.*
- I keep a plastic bucket and rubber gloves in the cabinet under the bathroom sink. If the diaper is poopy, I rinse whatever I can in the toilet, and run the bath water on full water pressure over a bucket to rinse off the rest. I dump that water in the toilet too. Then I let the diaper soak in the bucket in hot water with a tiny bit of this bac-out solution* (helps with stains + smell). Later, I rinse it out and add it to the wet bag.
- I probably get around to washing them every 4-5 days. Some people prefer to wash every other.
- I used to throw everything in the dryer, but recently I’ve started hang drying them to make them last longer.
- All our diapers are in great shape still after using them 7 months with one kid and another 12 so far with a second.
BUT DOES IT REALLY SAVE THAT MUCH MONEY?
When I had two kids in disposables, our monthly diaper budget (with me crazy-couponing them and never spending more than a unit price of 14-17 cents per diaper) was $60/ month. Minimum. Now it’s $10-15. And that includes wipes + disposables for nighttime/ babysitters/travel + cloth diaper cleaning solution.
So it’s only around $600/ year in savings… ish. But with multiple kids over many years it adds up. Our main reason for doing it is to pinch pennies while getting out of debt. And if we’ve learned anything about getting out of debt it, it’s every $50 matters.
$50/ month on cable
+ $50/ month on diapers
+ $100/ month on groceries
+ $50/ month on phone bill
+ $20/month on utilities
+ $50/ month on dates
+ EVERY SINGLE DOLLAR YOU CAN FIND
equals hundreds of dollars a month = getting out of debt sooner = being free to do other things with money besides give it to Sallie Mae.
Plus, there’s the bonus of a cute cloth diaper clad baby
So, are you considering taking the plunge? Or do you already cloth diaper? If you do, share the products you love in the comments below… anyone who’s made it this far is definitely interested in hearing your opinions and recommendations!